How Assumptions Shape Beliefs
Assumptions: The Unwritten Architects of Our Minds Have you ever felt absolutely certain about something only for real life to come and prove you wrong? That's the quiet power of assumptions. They are the invisible architects of our minds, making silent constructions regarding the world, ourselves, and those around us. We all make assumptions every day. Most of them are unconscious. They range from simple observations, such as "He looks grumpy," to broader generalizations, such as "Successful people always go to college." These assumptions help us make mental shortcuts through life's complexities but sometimes get us off course. Where Assumptions Come From Assumptions can spring from a million sources. Personal experiences, the values our family and society have taught us, the mass media, and conversations—all help weave a tapestry of assumptions within us. For instance, a past treachery may make us wary in creating new relationships. The culture we have ...